Hair Myths

I recently came across an article on yahoo that mentioned some of the common hair myths that we hear about everyday.  Most of them.... were false!!


Myth: Frequent trims make hair grow faster.
Truth: "Hair grows a half-inch per month, whether you cut it or not," says John Barrett, owner of the John Barrett Salon in New York City. Hair may grow slightly faster in the summer, but that has nothing to do with the stylist's scissors and everything to do with hormones, which do speed growth a little. One thing a trim will do: Eliminate split ends, making hair look better.

Myth: Switching shampoos can make hair look healthier.
Truth: It may seem so, but experts scoff. "Hair can't tell the difference between brands or build up tolerance to any product," says London-based hair and scalp expert Philip Kingsley. "Your favorite shampoo will work the same every time you lather up, week after week, month after month." If you have very oily hair or favor a particularly sticky styling product that contains wax, it does pay to use a clarifying shampoo once every two weeks to wash away residue. Good Housekeeping's Beauty Department recommends Redken Hair Cleansing Cream and Neutrogena Anti-Residue Shampoo.

Myth: Coloring your hair causes major damage.
Truth:
 Products today — both at home and in the salon — are gentle enough not to weaken hair. In fact, some contain extra conditioners that may leave hair more manageable than before. Although it's not necessary, "it can't hurt to consult a professional stylist the first time you do anything permanent to your hair or scalp," Kingsley counsels.

Myth: You can mend split ends with the right products
Truth:
 Once they're split, that's it. The only thing you can do then is cut them off. Celebrity stylist Jimmy Paul suggests making split ends less noticeable by applying a product containing silicone or beeswax. It will temporarily seal ends together, making hair softer and more manageable. Try: John Paul Mitchell Gloss Drops and John Barrett Bee Hold.

Myth: You should brush your hair 100 strokes every day
Truth:
 "Brush it only to style it, because brushing pulls hairs out of their follicles and possibly weakens individual strands," says Kingsley.
-Courtesy of Shine.Yahoo



Inspiration At It's Best

This week we chose, India Arie's song Video. This is a very inspirational song that encourages women to love themselves. Enjoy!

"When I look in the mirror and the only one there is me
Every freckle on my face is where it's supposed to be
And I know our creator didn't make no mistakes on me
My feet, my thighs, my lips, my eyes; I'm lovin' what I see"

World News Wednesdays

Violence Is Not The Answer




A Chicago police officer was killed in a gun battle with a suspect Wednesday afternoon, and a suspect was critically wounded, a police spokesman said. The shooting happened on the city's South Side about 3:45 p.m., Officer Daniel O'Brien told CNN. The suspect was being treated at a local hospital Wednesday evening, but the officer died, O'Brien said. Officer Alejandro Valadez was a three year veteran of the Chicago police force. He was responding to a report of shots fired when a gunman in a car opened fire. Valadez's fiancee was also an officer 7th district. ABC7 has learned that she is pregnant. -(CHICAGO) (WLS)

As violence continues to plague Chicago's southside, many wonder when all of the violence will end. Not just in Chicago, but worldwide. What do you feel are some possible solutions to ending violence?

Inspiration At It's Best

We came across this very positive video from an artist named Anhayla. We hope that it inspires and uplifts everyone.


"(U) (G)otta (L)ove (Y)ourself... For Anyone To Love You"

What Happens After The First Slap?

Domestic Violence


Domestic violence occurs when one person in an intimate relationship or marriage tries to dominate and control the other person. It occurs for one purpose and one purpose only: to gain and maintain total control over you. Abusers use fear, guilt, shame, and intimidation to wear you down and keep you under his or her thumb. Your abuser may also threaten you, hurt you, or hurt those around you.

Domestic violence has many forms including physical aggression (hitting, kicking, biting, shoving, restraining, throwing objects), or threats thereof; sexual abuse; emotional abuse; controlling or domineering; intimidation stalking passive/covert abuse (neglect); and economic deprivation.


  • People on the outside looking in would say that the obvious thing to do is to leave but it is much easier to say “leave him” then it is for the woman to actually do so. Domestic violence not only involves physical violence but mental and emotional control over the woman. Now the question becomes when do you decide that you’ve had enough? While some are able to walk away from such situations others may find it to be very difficult. Some women blame themselves and find a way to convince themselves that what is happening is ok when it’s not. Domestic violence is wrong. With that said, I want to offer some words of encouragement to anyone who may be experiencing domestic violence. First and foremost, understand that you are not to blame. Second, know that you are not in it alone. There are others experiencing the same thing and there are people who are willing to help you through. Third, learn to love yourself and realize your self-worth. You are priceless and you deserve real love. –Gia


  • The abuse often starts off small. The first attack is normally a slap, punch or a shove. When this happens, a women is confused. Shortly after the attack, comes the apology. The same words are often used, “I’m sorry” “I was just upset” and “It will never happen again”. The shock of being physically harmed by the person you love is a lot to take in. We all hear stories of domestic violence, but a lot of women believe that it could never happen to them. So, when it does happen they don’t know what to do. They end up believing that it will only happen once. The truth is, if a person is bold enough to hit you once without any consequences, they will do it again. Most women stay because they are afraid, have been with the person for a long time, or they believe that they will never fall in love again. We're here to tell you that no matter how long you have been with a person you do not deserve to be abused. There is ALWAYS someone better who will treat you  how you are supposed to be treated and if you are afraid there are many options, you just have to be willing take the first step. -Bonny

If you know someone whom you think is being abused - a friend, family member, co-worker, client, or patient - please consider contacting one of the agencies listed below to discuss ways to safely help them.
Common Ground Sanctuary
Toll Free
248.456.0909
800.231.1127
HAVEN
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248.334.1274
877.922.1274